Gonna start from the most unforgettable Chinese New Year I have ever had. ^_^
As you guys know I got engaged after 3 weeks into the relationship, I know alot of pple are worried for me but don't worry, he's a nice guy till now and yes I'm happy now. ^_^
So on the 3rd day of CNY, i went to my fiance's place for family dinner,
Slightly awhile after dinner, a mad auntie-liked girl came up to his place to make a scene, I was in the room & they were all out in the living room talking to her.
I though what was happening cause the girl went crazy throwing things around, screaming & scolding my fiance's mum. Why would there be such a person that doesn't shows respect to the elderly. Maybe there's something wrong with her up-bringing or because she's just who she is.
She slammed the gates and kept crying non-stop. I do pity and feel sad for her very much. That's when i have found out that she's my fiance ex-wife.
But what's wrong with me going up to pay a visit to my fiance's parents? Nothing's wrong right? It's not like as if she owns the whole flat, half of the house belongs to my fiance. And she bloody didn't once pay for the bills, renovation cost! Only monthly contribution around $100 thru CPF. Why make such a big fuss =.= While we were all seating in the living room chatting she came back over to the house again but this time round she brought her mum along =.= Then started crying and screaming again like a mad woman and threaten to suicide AGAIN =.=
Yes, she gave me the impression that she is not being loved now. I really don't understand why she likes to make a big hoohaa out of small matters =.=
First she threaten to commit suicide if my fiance don't give her the sole custody of the kid then now is this =.=
It's not like my fiance don't pay her a single cent, a kid won't need so much allowance. He still gotta send her $1.4k every month tilll the kid is in primary school then raise to $1.6k, then secondary school $1.8k and eventually $2k at tiertiary. Eventhough she cheated on him with GOD KNOWS HOW MANY MEN.
(P.S. This is not based on no evidence accusation. Remember Darren and the plastic surgeon? ^_^ )
Just that morning, my fiance transferred $8k into her bank account and she came screaming that she still gotta BORROW MONEY from people to come back to SG from Dubai JUST to let him see her. But she was telling everyone that she's back for Chinese New Year.
But she didn't even allow him to bring the kid out. Only to let him see for a few hours in the kid's bday party and it's not like a 1 to 1 thingy lo.
All the while i've been asking my fiance about him and his ex-wife, like why they got divorced and stuffs. I'm very neutral about all this stuffs and chose to listen and see from both parties. YES, i admit i do have my doubts about what he said previously about his marriage before and the reason for divorce, untill i met his ex-wife. I'm so much sure that he indeed lived in a misery. I'm sure he's always being bullied =.=
One thing i'm really pissed off is that she says they can't take care of the kid as much as she could. But the way she reacts is really obvious that she's suffering from depression, how can she look after her kid if she's suffering from depression and always threaten to suicide? Or is it that she really loves to act to much.
I'm not mad at her and got no rights to at all because it's the business between them, she can do whatever she wants as long as she don't bring me in to the complicated situation.
Oh ya, i'm glad you didn't cherish this man, you dump him and treated him so badly & look down on him just because he's not rich. How materialistic are you.
You're welcome to sue me. But remember... I'm not as stupid as you think i am. I still have the clip of the day when you went berserk ^_^
So basically whatever i say here, it all CAN be PROVEN and it's all FACTS ^_^
1 comments:
You only heard his side of the story, how much do you really know and how much of them is true? How could you be neutral for only listening to one side of the story especially so when you have vested interest? A neutral person looking at the issue will wonder why the ex wife could be so mad about him; will wonder why she can also be so mad about his mom. There must be a reason for everything to happen. Have you really looked at the issue at different angles faithfully given your position as a person currently happily in love with him?
It is such a contrary that on one hand you said that you are not mad at the ex wife but on the other hand publicly accuse the ex wife over and over in the contents of this post, and you did mention you are pissed. Do you really mean it when you mention you pity her and feel sad for her?
It is such a contrary that on one hand you mentioned you do not wish her getting you involved in the complicated situation but on the other hand invited her to sue you and used so many provoking words.
It is such a contrary that you mentioned you were in the room but you could actually "see" the Ex-wife throwing things.
Since you mentioned that the ex wife owns half the flat so she is still the owner and I am afraid she has the right to choose who to receive in the flat.
A small contribution is also a contribution in supporting the house. And, there are a lot of contributions by a woman to the household that cannot be measured by monetary contribution, such as making the house. Isn't that the duty of a man to provide for family? I am sorry to say that you may not have the right to comment on this since you are only a visitor.
Do you have a kid? If not then how do you know how much is required to raised a kid? I have a kid and I know it very well that raising a kid is not that easy afterall especially so when you are a single parent. You can raise a kid at a very low expenses if you don't love them. You can save a lot by sending them to PAP childcare, no toy, no enrichment classes, bringing them everywhere by bus and MRT, buying new clothes only when their flesh bursting out from their clothes and eating $3 take away food from hawker for daily meals. If you were her or me, would you provide this kind of lifestyle to your kid?
She is the one taking care of the kid and raising the kid up. For the sake that both of you are women and one day you may become mother, please give her a break.
When a relationship does not work out and a man and woman enter a new relationship, do you think any one of them on earth would actually tell the new partner how nice their ex partner is? Common sense right?
When many are worried for you, you should really start to relook into it and get worried.
Love is blind. Choice is yours. God will know. Time will tell. Take care.
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